So I don't want to start a shit storm, but curiosity has gotten the better of me.
Do you use birth control in your marriage?
Do you feel like it is the right thing to do?
How long have you been married, and how long have you been on birth control?
If you are not, is it religion or personal values that prevent you from using it?
I don't use birth control in the sense of drugs, injections or implants. We use planned parenting(counting cycles etc) and it seems to work fine, though I'd never use pharmacutical drugs to do so. Once we are finished having children, DH has agreed to get snipped (reversable of course). It's a personal thing for us, any child is blessing, whenever they may pop into our life, and I feel that to prevent such a thing when we are both loving parents, and capable of caring for children is not the right thing to do, for us.
So I'm just curious where your views lie, do trying to start dram, though it is MC...