Grr...... so two years ago me and my husband separated because it was starting to get violent between us and I wasn't going to raise our two children in that environment. While I was gone we did ALOT of counselling, took it really slow yada yada yada. During this time DH had a fling. Well IDK what you would call it. I was really planning on getting a divorce but he worked very hard to get me and the kids back. I was gone for 9 months. the last 3 or 4 is when we started slowly spending more time together.
Well this fling happened in the middle of all of this. Her story they had sex 12 different times over 3 months. His is that they never had sex at all just watched movies and cuddled. MY conclusion to that is that the truth is somewhere in the middle. I found this out before I came back and accepted it because we really weren't together and I did tell him for a long time that I didn't want to be with him. It is what it is. This girl happens to work with them. They still work together a few times a week.
WTF I hate this situation. He was telling me about a joke he told a co-worker last night, whatever didn't think it was funny or relevant. But let me say I don't normally go threw his phone, today something said DO IT. Low and be hold that joke he told was to that girl and she had sent him a text about it saying it wasn't funny yada yada yada, but apparently they are chummy. WTF. He said he hated this girl for a long time because she harassed him? Well I'm glad they got over that and can be friends now. I just find it really disrespectful that he is so chummy with her.
Not sure how to approach hubby about it either.