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Just the same old sex...

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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We never try anything new.  We've been together for four years- married for three.  Our sex life consists of oral sex for him (I've gotten it 3 times in our 4 years together), missionary, doggy-style, and me on top.  That is all.  Ever.  No toys.  No games.  No role-playing.  No bondage.  Minimal foreplay.

We've had shower sex about 4 times.  Once on the bathroom counter (2 years ago).  Twice in the living room (Also over a year ago since that has happened).  That's as exciting as it gets.

I don't wear lingerie anymore because I got all dolled up once only to be rejected.  It just sort of ruined it for me.  I have to have a couple of glasses of wine to even attempt to initiate sex after several rejections, so I resent that sex is always on his terms.


This is in need of repair, but I don't know where to start.  Any advice?

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 24, 2013 at 12:32 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 24, 2013 at 12:33 PM
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Getcha some strange
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 24, 2013 at 12:34 PM

LOL.  Please elaborate.


Quoting Anonymous:

Getcha some strange



MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Jul. 24, 2013 at 12:34 PM

 

Quoting Anonymous:

Getcha some strange

 Haha this made me laugh.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 24, 2013 at 12:35 PM

Me too.

Any advice from you?

Quoting MrsDavidB25:

 

Quoting Anonymous:

Getcha some strange

 Haha this made me laugh.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 24, 2013 at 12:35 PM
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Do this to him when he gets home

MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Jul. 24, 2013 at 12:36 PM

 Not really. My dh would be thrilled if I kept coming at him with different types of sex moves/stuff.

Quoting Anonymous:

Me too.

Any advice from you?

Quoting MrsDavidB25:

 

Quoting Anonymous:

Getcha some strange

 Haha this made me laugh.

 

 

 

Calliwinx
by on Jul. 24, 2013 at 12:37 PM
What else is wrong in the relationship? Is he having any health issues? Also, he'll no would I be giving head without something in return! Have you ever orgasmed?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 24, 2013 at 12:38 PM

HAHAHA!


Quoting Anonymous:

Do this to him when he gets home



Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 24, 2013 at 12:38 PM

Maybe we'll learn something here... ;)


Quoting MrsDavidB25:

 Not really. My dh would be thrilled if I kept coming at him with different types of sex moves/stuff.

Quoting Anonymous:

Me too.

Any advice from you?

Quoting MrsDavidB25:

 

Quoting Anonymous:

Getcha some strange

 Haha this made me laugh.



 



Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 24, 2013 at 12:39 PM

Ugh same. I tried to mix it up a bit last week and DF was concerned something was wrong! IDK what to do. 

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