Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

how would you feel? *ETA* *ETA#2*

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
  • 158 Replies
3 moms liked this
If you found out your husband set up hidden cameras in the house so that he could spy on you while he's at work? *eta* when I originally find the camera, I confronted him and he said it didn't even work. Fast forward several months, I mentioned it again, and his story changed. He now admitted he wanted to see what was going on and that he watched our kids misbehave. What really bothers me is that he had it hooked up to a computer, so who knows how many people came across it and saw my kid and myself undressed. ***so I just got home and saw all of the replies! I want to answer questions, but I can't keep up. So I'll answer as many as I can here. This happened about 5 months ago. I'm not sure if it's still happening, but I wouldn't be surprised. I'm still with him because I want the house, and I need to come up with my own income to do that. My kids deserve to stay in their home, I don't want to have to move them again. (we've moved a lot) so at the moment I'm kind of stuck. I plan on unplugging all of the computers tomorrow and I'll watch his reaction when he gets home to see if he's checking them immediately. If he is, then I'll go from there to find the dang camera. And as someone said I should do, I plan on smashing the crap out of the camera with a hammer!
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:33 PM
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Replies (1-10):
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:34 PM
7 moms liked this
I'd be mad and creeped the hell out.....
peanutsmommy1
by Ruby Member on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:35 PM
3 moms liked this

I would feel like we had serious trust issues

NoahsMommy10412
by Silver Member on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:35 PM

I'd wonder why the fuck he would do that! I'd be pissed as well

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:36 PM

Weirded out.

TSNDDY
by Ruby Member on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:36 PM
1 mom liked this
I'd be pissed
tiredmama42
by on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:37 PM
4 moms liked this

Its considered stalking.  Does not matter you are married.  Your phones are probably tapped also and watch your computer.. may have a program to get your passwords.  Obviously he has issues.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:37 PM
Exactly!!


Quoting peanutsmommy1:

I would feel like we had serious trust issues


AMRios
by Gold Member on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:38 PM
5 moms liked this

I would be pissed and sit on the couch the entire day flipping the camera the middle finger... I might even drink an entire bottle of wine and give his a strip show! LOL...  Ass hole! Then tell him that is my afternoon workout routine!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:38 PM
I've wondered if my phone has been messed with. I'm pretty sure it has.


Quoting tiredmama42:

Its considered stalking.  Does not matter you are married.  Your phones are probably tapped also and watch your computer.. may have a program to get your passwords.  Obviously he has issues.


autodidact
by Snarknado on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:39 PM
30 moms liked this

divorced, that's how I'd feel

Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)



Featured