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how would you feel? *ETA* *ETA#2*

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
If you found out your husband set up hidden cameras in the house so that he could spy on you while he's at work? *eta* when I originally find the camera, I confronted him and he said it didn't even work. Fast forward several months, I mentioned it again, and his story changed. He now admitted he wanted to see what was going on and that he watched our kids misbehave. What really bothers me is that he had it hooked up to a computer, so who knows how many people came across it and saw my kid and myself undressed. ***so I just got home and saw all of the replies! I want to answer questions, but I can't keep up. So I'll answer as many as I can here. This happened about 5 months ago. I'm not sure if it's still happening, but I wouldn't be surprised. I'm still with him because I want the house, and I need to come up with my own income to do that. My kids deserve to stay in their home, I don't want to have to move them again. (we've moved a lot) so at the moment I'm kind of stuck. I plan on unplugging all of the computers tomorrow and I'll watch his reaction when he gets home to see if he's checking them immediately. If he is, then I'll go from there to find the dang camera. And as someone said I should do, I plan on smashing the crap out of the camera with a hammer!
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:33 PM
Replies (11-20):
SaraBethKY
by Gold Member on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:39 PM

I would feel very sad for him because he'd be really bored watching it! haha He definitely wouldn't do that though so this is never a worry I would actually have. 

Anonandon
by on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:39 PM

 yep

Quoting autodidact:

divorced, that's how I'd feel

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:40 PM

I would be so pissed off. I would probably leave. This is a huge trust issue.

katemckenzie
by Kate on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:40 PM

I'd be pretty damn pissed.
DF used to threaten to do that, because he thought I just sat around and slept all day, and didn't believe that DS misbehaves as much as he does. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:41 PM
I wish I was divorced...unfortunately I'm a stay at home mom, so I need to find an income first.


Quoting Anonandon:

 yep


Quoting autodidact:


divorced, that's how I'd feel


 


Mommy2b2many
by on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:41 PM
This

Quoting peanutsmommy1:

I would feel like we had serious trust issues

kbutton24
by Mrs.Sima on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:41 PM

I'd be pissed, but I'd get even. I wouldn't let him know I knew until after I screwed with him.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:43 PM
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Even if you DID sleep all day... who cares. I would have been pissed lol

Quoting katemckenzie:

I'd be pretty damn pissed.
DF used to threaten to do that, because he thought I just sat around and slept all day, and didn't believe that DS misbehaves as much as he does. 

LadyAmaranth
by on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:43 PM

I be pissed and he'd find that out the moment I saw him again. Ultimatum will be given.

WesAndNicksMom
by Platinum Member on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:44 PM
Creeped out! I just found out my MIL had a private investigator watching my house and following my boyfriend last year and she told me she'll do it the next time I start seeing someone.
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