My son said it "isn't a good idea to loan you money"
The other day I was over there, I left my purse in the living room and I believe my sons Gf took 50 dollars.
I didn't mention it though because I had no way to prove it and didn't want to start anything. So I forgave her and went on with my life. The weekend came and we were all supposed to leave for vacation. I knew DS had work so they wouldn't drive down until later in the week. The end of the week comes and they never show up because of some class he said he had to take(which I later found out was a lie). The reason they didn't come is because DS's Gf supposedly thinks my Sdd doesn't like her. Which I don't think is true. SDD is just interested in different things. DS's Gf is almost the same age as SDD but she has a baby and no college education while SDD goes to college and just hangs out with friends. They're just at 2 different places in life.
Well anyway, I tell them I'm upset that GDD didn't get to spend time with us on the beach. And how much I missed her and looked forward to seeing her. Turns out they drove her to Rhode Island to stay with her other grandparents all week! I was very very upset. I told them I would have taken GDD all week and they had time to drive that LONG ride but not 2 hours to where I was? I felt like it was done to spite me because DS does that all of the time.
Then today comes. Our lawn mower has been broke so when I saw a small business doing landscaping for our neighbors I asked if they could just cut my grass. For 20 bucks, the man agreed. I soon realized I didn't have any cash on me so I called DS and asked if I could borrow 20 dollars just until DH gets home from work. You know what DS said? "Well I don't think loaning you money is a good idea"
WHAT?! We let him leave her for 3 months rent free, I provide FREE child care for GDD several times a week, I do their laundry ALL the time, I've driven him to job interviews, I let them come over to get on my computer....and he doesn't think it's a good idea to loan me 20 dollars?! I am furious over how rude he was being. It's not the money, I drove to the ATM and got money. It's the fact that he had the money but wanted to spite me once again.
I'm just so tired of it. Oh and no I don't owe him any money. I've borrowed 20 here and there in the past but I paid it back within the week! It has been a very long time since I asked him to loan me anything.