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This abortion ruined my life...

Anonymous
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It has been hell...I feel so guilty and so disgusting..I was so young and I didn't have the support from the father. We were both young . I couldn't go to my mother because we don't have the best relationship. I wish i could've gone to my mother, things would've been different..

 It hurts me so much. It made me into a person i never wanted to be. It goes agaisnt everything i believe in.

Everything happened so fast ..If i knew what i know about abortions now i would have never ever gotten one..i never looked into it because  I never thought it would happen to me. I will be a different mother to my kids..

I am forever sorry about this..


Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 25, 2013 at 5:02 PM
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PinkHart
by on Jul. 25, 2013 at 5:03 PM
How long ago was it? Sounds like you need counseling to come to terms.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 25, 2013 at 5:04 PM


I think i do as well. 2 years ago

Quoting PinkHart:

How long ago was it? Sounds like you need counseling to come to terms.



loisl25
by Platinum Member on Jul. 25, 2013 at 5:05 PM
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Hugs. There's nothing you can do about it now but to try and forgive yourself, and pray about it if you believe in God.
BrownEyedGirl86
by Silver Member on Jul. 25, 2013 at 5:05 PM
Listen Hun you can't change the past. Get into therapy and maybe a job that you can help other women in your position.
KenneMaw
by Platinum Member on Jul. 25, 2013 at 5:06 PM

You need to figure out a way to forgive yourself.   Have you looked for support groups or considered counseling?  I really think it would help.   You can't let this ruin your life.   Hugs to you.

Jcothrine
by on Jul. 25, 2013 at 5:06 PM

i think counseling is a good idea too...

you have to learn to forgive yourself...

you can't change the past but you can make your future better....


gppd luck

jesistar6910
by on Jul. 25, 2013 at 5:06 PM

You might need to get some therapy to help you cope. 

Sorry you are having such a hard time, I hope things get better.

PinkHart
by on Jul. 25, 2013 at 5:07 PM
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You sound like you're still stuck in the grieving process. And before all the anons start saying you can't grieve something you electively terminated they are false. Everyone handles their decisions differently. You're experiencing regret which is normal. Through that regret you are grieving the child you now wish was here. Get yourself some help dear.

Quoting Anonymous:


I think i do as well. 2 years ago


Quoting PinkHart:

How long ago was it? Sounds like you need counseling to come to terms.




SRUsarahSC
by Platinum Member on Jul. 25, 2013 at 5:07 PM
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I help out at a support group run via my church, reach out to them for help. It is a nonjudgmental  therapy group for women who regret an abortion.  Catholic churches run these programs for free.  Also there tons of support groups online if you wish to remain anon.  Hugs, momma.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 25, 2013 at 5:08 PM

Thank you. I was thinking about that as well. 


Quoting BrownEyedGirl86:

Listen Hun you can't change the past. Get into therapy and maybe a job that you can help other women in your position.



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