So I have found text messages on my husbands phone to his ex girlfriend. (Yes I was snooping, something just didn't feel right) Things were said like: ... this beautiful view makes me think of you....happy birthday hope it was a good one....how are you....hope you are good...Just thinking of you...next time you're in town we should do lunch....hows work...hows family
So I confronted my husband and he got mad at me for going through his phone. Never apologized. Nothing..
I know he is not having a physical affair because she lives in another state. She is also in a relationship..(Yes I facebook stalked)
I don't think this is appropriate for a married man to be texting his ex girlfriend. Especially the one where he said the view is beautiful and made me think of you...
So here's the deal...Do you believe in emotional cheating?? Would you be pissed??? Or should I not have been snooping??? Have you been in a similiar situation??
And BTW...I'm not proud of any of this..