Here is why: Once upon a time I was a single mother on FS. I hated it. I worked my ass off to get off of PA and provide for my own.
Unlike a lot ( not all) of the welfare recipients today I had pride. Setting a good example for my children was important to me. Securing their future was important to me as well.
So if a person is going to brag about using other peoples money and ask if I'm jealous I'm going to say no. Its not jealously I have. Its sadness for your children and hope that some of your children will break the cycle so that my children won't be paying for yours in the future and they can live with pride knowing they made something of themselves despite the bad example their parents set!