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My dad raped me and I have the chance

Anonymous
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He is in the hospital and it's only a matter of time until death claims him. He asked me to come and I did since it might be the last time and I didn't want to regret not going. He admitted what he did and said if I wanted, he had given the doctors' orders that whether or not to disconnet him from the machines was my choice.

I said I couldn't think about something like that right now and my brother told me to think about it and I can make the decision anytime before the machines can't help.

what would you do?

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 26, 2013 at 11:10 PM
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Fields456
by Ruby Member on Jul. 26, 2013 at 11:12 PM
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I have never been in that situation but I don't think I could give the ok to take someone off life support

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 26, 2013 at 11:13 PM
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I'd have told him off and told the Dr to do whatever, for it wouldn't matter to me.
quinnsmom715
by Donna on Jul. 26, 2013 at 11:14 PM
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personally,id let the sob die,thats just me..

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 26, 2013 at 11:14 PM
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BUMP!

momof2boy2girl
by Valerie on Jul. 26, 2013 at 11:14 PM
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What an asshole. He has some nerve to put you in that spot.
gigis1
by on Jul. 26, 2013 at 11:15 PM
Your choice hun. Good luck
Mish321
by on Jul. 26, 2013 at 11:16 PM
Oh my.., this is a hard one, but only you can make the desdision. I'm sorry.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 26, 2013 at 11:16 PM
Tell him to fuck off your not going to make him feel better by letting him off the hook BTW I was too did he apologize or admit it was wrong.... my father admittedwhat he did but said it was my fault...
kgsharber
by Gold Member on Jul. 26, 2013 at 11:16 PM
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That sounds like his last stitch effort for take a jab at you. He wants you to bear the weight of his death and feel like its your fault. Fuck that. Its not your burdent to carry. Let him die slowly. Who cares!! Best response is none at all. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 26, 2013 at 11:16 PM
If machines were the only thing keeping him alive I'd say that him off. What's the use of keeping him a vegetable?
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