His girlfriend of 2 years is pregnant. They started having sex this year and she was on birth control. I knew they were sexually active. He told me he doesn't want to be a father and doesn't want anything to do with this pregnancy or child. I told he has to step up until he stated very firmly "if its okay for a woman to decide not be a mom yet and have an abortion how is this decision any different?"
i have thought it over and I can agree with him.
ETA: I NEVER said I didn't want to be apart of the child's life. I NEVER told my son I agree but I do agree. The girlfriend was on the injection and hadn't even had a period in months so I guess they didn't think this was possible. I agree THEY not just "him" should have used a condom in conjunction with the injection. My sons point it vaild, She can choose not to be mom at anytime and terminate the pregnancy but he cant make the same choice? If he wants to walk out and sign his rights over then I will accept that and I will work something out in terms of photos or letters with my grandchild without his input.