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Anonymous
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So my dh and i are not very close to his mother. She has no interest in our daughter and we live less than 10 miles from her. We are now 21 weeks pregnant with our first son, her first grandson. Should we tell her or not?
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 28, 2013 at 8:52 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 28, 2013 at 8:56 PM
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 28, 2013 at 8:56 PM
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by Anonymous on Jul. 28, 2013 at 8:57 PM
I wouldn't. Don't care about my daughter, don't get to know my son either. I'm sure everyone will call me horrible, oh well.
peanutsmommy1
by Ruby Member on Jul. 28, 2013 at 8:57 PM
Um, dont you think she will find out eventually?
golther
by on Jul. 28, 2013 at 8:57 PM
Meh I wouldn't.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 28, 2013 at 8:58 PM
Im not even sure. She never calls or visits


Quoting peanutsmommy1:Um, dont you think she will find out eventually?
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 28, 2013 at 8:59 PM
My dh says for what so im thinking who cares


Quoting Anonymous:

I wouldn't. Don't care about my daughter, don't get to know my son either. I'm sure everyone will call me horrible, oh well.

lovnmy3boys
by Paula on Jul. 28, 2013 at 9:03 PM

That's really sad- she's missing out on so much. If I were you, probably not. If she was involved in your lives shed already know.

i have a two yr old granddaughter and my dil is pregnant...I know we and her parents were the first people they told. I'm sorry .

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 28, 2013 at 9:05 PM
Yeah she is


Quoting lovnmy3boys:

That's really sad- she's missing out on so much. If I were you, probably not. If she was involved in your lives shed already know.

i have a two yr old granddaughter and my dil is pregnant...I know we and her parents were the first people they told. I'm sorry .


momto3boys85
by on Jul. 28, 2013 at 9:06 PM

I would tell her and if she wants to be involved then she will be and if she doesn't want to be involved than at least you know you did the mature thing and informed her of her grandson.

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