However the money we put in her savings is gone. We've depleted all of our funds and have to use the majority of hers. My mother has been sick 5 times in the last year. Between the flight costs and me leaving my job to care for her, everything we have saved for is gone. It's been very lean around here and we had explained the situation to her. When we sat her down last night to explain she wouldn't be getting the car she had hoped for or the basement renovated, but that we still had just enough money to throw her a nice party. She flipped on us, but directed most of the hate to me. She called me a theif because we had taken money out of her savings account. She said I pm a gold digger and I'm only with her father for money. Even though for a while I was the one running his practice.
I understand she's upset but we can not do anything about it now. We are slowly recovering and eventually we will be able to continued as planed. I thought she would understand things happen, but she's being a complete brat and quite frankly a bitch. At this point she's not going to get anything for her birthday since she can't be grateful.
BTW since most of you can not read. We discussed that we would be taking money out of her savings. We had hoped to be able to refund the money by now, but we are unable to do so. Life happens.