DD's dad and I aren't together although up until recently we've been on friendly terms and do a lot of things together. We have been planning a trip out of the country with DD and its supposed to happen in like 2 weeks. DD's dad is mad at me and we haven't spoken in over a week and he also hasn't called to speak to DD or responded to her phone calls. This is all too common for him. So, DD really wants to go on the trip. Should I just tell him that we aren't going? Or should I suck it up for the 3 days and let DD enjoy herself?