A while ago we were struggling sexually and doctor's could find nothing wrong with him. I started researching and found that men that watch porn could suffer from porn related erectile dysfunction.I sent him the articles I read and we talked it over and he said he would stop and it wouldn't be a problem since he only looks on occasion. Well things got better for a while but then I found porn in his history on his tablet. And for the last month and a half we have been struggling again. He has a rough time getting hard again and he won't last more than like a minute which is frustrating for both us. I don't know why he won't just stop knowing how frustrating is. I just found a porn dvd that he downloaded from the internet in the laundry that must have fallen into the basket which was right next to the tv stand in our room. This last week was horrible sexually and now I'm just down right angry. Why won't he stop? I hate bringing it up because he gets all bent out of shape. Would you leave your SO if it were happening to you? If everything else in your relationship was fine? He apparently can't stop and I know he won't go for help, thats out of the question, He's a very private person and would never do that. So what would you do? I'm at my whits end with this and can't take much more. When he gets off of midnights friday night I know he will think that I want sex and initiate it but I think I will just tell him no, I'm done until he stops for good. He almost for sure watches porn when he is on midnights because he takes his tablet with him when he goes to bed as if I'm stupid and don't know. Please help!