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You are pregnant!! WHAT?!?!?!?! UPDATE!

Anonymous
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Well I just found out I am pregnant. For most people this means pure happiness. For me it feels like my life is over. I just turned 45. I thought I was done having kids 10 years ago when I got my tubal after a devastating emergency c-section which ended up being my angel baby

I just do not know how to feel or what to do. I thought I was going through menopause. I haven't even told DH yet. I don't even know how. 


UPDATE! I told dh last night. We talked for hours and thought about all the options. We both agreed that we do not want another baby and we are going to setup an appointment for me to get an abortion. I really feel it is best. I have many different health problems, I am not mentally stable enough to have a baby also. It took 5 years of counseling after what happened with my angel baby and I am stil not okay all the way. Every single second I am pregnant it is all I can think of. The stress alone of  thinking about being pregnant, having to go through labor, and all the added risks have given me panic attacks and chest pains. 

It is scheduled for later today. 

Oldish update: I had it done. I have been feeling a lot better 

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 30, 2013 at 5:33 PM
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3kidz123
by Gold Member on Jul. 30, 2013 at 5:37 PM
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um...I feel like saying congrats would be in bad taste so HUGS instead!

leksismommy
by Gold Member on Jul. 30, 2013 at 5:37 PM

You are a grown woman. Explore all your options and make a decision. Good luck

LadyAmaranth
by on Jul. 30, 2013 at 5:39 PM
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(((Hugs)))

I hope you can find the joy in this pregnancy.

Blessings to you....

~Hillarie~
Mama to 3 Joyfully Chaotic Sons

http://kissmybleepcancer.blogspot.com/

LovlyRita
by Gold Member on Jul. 30, 2013 at 5:39 PM

YIKES!  


storkCongratulations

NATALIE
“Mommy” to two
“Nanny” to six
Supervane
by Ruby Member on Jul. 30, 2013 at 5:39 PM
Well at your age I don't think any of us need to explain options for you. So choose wisely
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 30, 2013 at 5:42 PM
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I have my tubes tied...this scares me.
julainepw
by Bronze Member on Jul. 30, 2013 at 5:43 PM
Wow! I would be shocked too. Just try to be positive about it. It's a blessing in disguise. Maybe it was meant to be. If you and dh have a strong relationship I'm sure you will be able to make it work. Good luck.
PookiePanda
by on Jul. 30, 2013 at 5:43 PM

Hugs momma. <3

mommadana
by Bronze Member on Jul. 30, 2013 at 5:43 PM
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I will keep you and your family in my thoughts. My friend had a similar problem. Failed tubal done many years ago and her first 2 pregnancies were life threatening to both mother and child prior to tubal.
MistyMoo
by Ruby Member on Jul. 30, 2013 at 5:44 PM
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Yikes! That is one hell of a predicament. Hope it all goes well for you. I thought my mom was nuts having me at 42!
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