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adoptions not always best

Posted by on Jul. 30, 2013 at 7:36 PM
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For those saying they can always put a baby up for adoption obviously dont know all that goes into adoption. For example the fact that if you place the child up for adoption in some states you can change your mind and fight to get you kid back leaving the family who adopted them heartbroken. And all the paperwork and heart break that goes into waiting a being passed up when your trying to adopt. And lets not forget to mention the questions that child will ask about their birth parents and the void they could feel. So tell us all again how adoption is always better then abortion
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crumpy_gat
by No. on Jul. 30, 2013 at 7:37 PM
Ya well..
buttercup627
by Platinum Member on Jul. 30, 2013 at 7:40 PM
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It's that a serious question? Ask any kid that's been adopted if they'd rather be dead then have been adopted onto another family lol that'll help you understand why adoption is better then ending life
momaof8
by Silver Member on Jul. 30, 2013 at 7:42 PM
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Its always better we adopted six
elliotmommytobe
by on Jul. 30, 2013 at 7:42 PM
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I dont have to I am adopted

Quoting buttercup627:

It's that a serious question? Ask any kid that's been adopted if they'd rather be dead then have been adopted onto another family lol that'll help you understand why adoption is better then ending life
Mweddle
by Gold Member on Jul. 30, 2013 at 7:43 PM
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Well I just know that I'm glad my four adopted kids weren't aborted.  :) 

momaof8
by Silver Member on Jul. 30, 2013 at 7:44 PM
Quoting elliotmommytobe:





And you would rather be dead?
NotTheirMom99
by on Jul. 30, 2013 at 7:44 PM

I couldn't do it.

laura_simss
by on Jul. 30, 2013 at 7:44 PM
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When it comes to an unplanned pregnancy there is NOT a "one size fits all" answer. Adoption MIGHT be the best but it might not be. The system is corrupt and it isn't filled with only happy endings. 

quinnsmom715
by Donna on Jul. 30, 2013 at 7:45 PM
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there are a lot of kids in foster care that would love a home..

momaof8
by Silver Member on Jul. 30, 2013 at 7:45 PM
Quoting NotTheirMom99:

I couldn't do it.





Do what? Kill your baby? I hope not.
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