Every since ds was about 4 weeks old he'd spend the night with mil for 1day sometimes almost two but we'd always pick him up on that second day. She got him every weekend. (He's our only and my inlaws only as well)
Once ds got older he started spending the night for two whole days, now that he's 2 years old he spends the night from Friday- Sunday (sometimes Monday's) or it'll change if she wants him for those 2 or 3 days out the week. Mil is like my bff and she's only 15 minutes away so while he's there we still stop by. This has been going on for 2years and I love it. Every mom needs that mommy time and i get it and proud of it! I made this post awhile back and got bashed by most of the moms who don't get out much (not my problem). I can still have a life outside of being a mom.
I like to go out to dinner with dh, movies with him etc etc. Far as myself, I like getting my eyesbrows done, nails done either by myself or with my close friend.
Plus I work but I pick my own hours same for dh but even if we aren't working this doesn't change. So for the moms that have their mommy time don't ya just loveee it?
Ps twist this post up if you like but your opinion isn't going to change.