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Do you think he'll marry me eventually? Who else is he going to get?

Anonymous
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We dated for a few years 10 years ago.  I wanted to marry him, but he wanted to get married , but not to me.   So we broke up.  I was hurt.  Time passed, he wanted to be friends.  First, I said no, but then he won me over.

We go to each other's work Christmas parties, and I get tickets so we can go to concerts and wrestling together.  We have sex.  He doesn't have a girlfriend.  He is 40 and I am 46. 

In the past, he said he wanted to find someone special to marry and have children with, but he's not getting any younger, and WHO does he think he's going to find anyway?And I have a teen-age son.  He's 40 and balding!  

I'm buying him a $500 gift he wants for his birthday.  Do you think he'll eventually realize that i'm the one for him???

UPDATE- I found out he's on Match.com trying to find a woman just like me!  Why ?  

UPDATE-I'm flying us out to New Orleans and got Wrestlemania tickets for us!



Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:10 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:12 PM

BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:12 PM

BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:12 PM

BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:13 PM

BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:14 PM
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No, I think he won't need to buy the cow. He probably doesn't even want kids at this point.
psychessun
by Gold Member on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:14 PM
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so after he ages out of the dating pool he'll settle for you.  how romantic.

i'd drop-kick his ass to the door.

JakeandEmmasMom
by Silver Member on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:14 PM
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Probably not. You are wasting your time, and he is using you. I'm sorry.

You deserve better.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:14 PM
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Stop having sex with him, either he will make you his choice or not. You're not helping yourself by being a door mat 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:14 PM
He should fo starting a family at 40 is hard my df did with me I know its been hard on him
lovemyairman150
by Silver Member on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:14 PM
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Ummmmmm.....

0_o

I think you've kinda trained him into believing he can have all that with you and not commit through marriage, soooo...

Idk, I don't think he's gonna come around, but for your sake, I hope he does!!
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