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I have a friend

Anonymous
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She has 3 girls. She wanted a boy so her and her dh tried for a boy saying either way this is the last one. Well she found out it is a boy. At first she was very excited buying blue everything. Now she is depressed. She is saying things like, my girls are so SWEET and this is my last, and I want another girl. I am not sure how to help her or what to say or do. How can I reassure her this is what she wanted and she will be ok?

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:42 PM
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vegaswife2011
by LMAO on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:44 PM

Umm....you can't. She's needs to come to terms with it on her own. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:44 PM
She is psycho. Who in their right mind wants 4 girls. F that.

MommyAddie
by Platinum Member on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:45 PM
I'm about to have my 4th girl and I ecstatic. But crazy, too, lol.

Quoting Anonymous:

She is psycho. Who in their right mind wants 4 girls. F that.



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embrigmom
by Platinum Member on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:46 PM

Don't think there is anything you can say to her. Maybe remind her how much sons love their mothers and how much daughters and mothers fight. IDK.

MommyAddie
by Platinum Member on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:46 PM
She's probably a little scared that she won't know how to raise a boy. She'll be ok when he gets here and she sees how special he is.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:47 PM
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Remember she's hormonal right now.

It's always a bit sad to think that this will be the last child that you have.

Once she holds that baby, she'll be thrilled.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:49 PM
For real. I have three girls and they drive me nuts. They are 16, 12 and 3. My one boy is so easy compared to the three.

Quoting Anonymous:

She is psycho. Who in their right mind wants 4 girls. F that.



armywife009
by Platinum Member on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:51 PM

It's her hormones. Just lend your ear to her.

deenakate
by on Jul. 31, 2013 at 2:53 PM

You can't help her, she has to help herself. She will come to terms with it and she will be ok.

sampson200
by on Jul. 31, 2013 at 3:01 PM

One of my girlfriends found out she was having a boy when she was really hoping for a 2nd girl.

She was all 'boys are smelly and dirty and messy!' - joking, but a tad serious.

"Just you wait" we said to her.

The second that child slid out of her body she was in LUUUUUV.

You can't change her mind, just tell her "Just you wait".

She'll be fine.

/lordy, women are weird

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