Ok. First, please don't judge. My husband and I are both smokers. We have been since we were both 16, and quite frankly neither of us has any intention of quitting. We also have 2 small children. I quit while I was pregnant, cold tyrkey, but deep down I knew I would start up again afterwards. We never smoke around our children. We keep our smoking to the front porch and the bedroom, which leads me to the point of this post. My husband has a major smoking fetish. I've known about it for years, and have been obliging his fetish for years now. We've always incorporated smoking into our sex life, and I've always enjoyed it, but nothing like I've begun to enjoy it over the last year. We engage in smokey sex probably 2-3 nights a week, and it has never been more intense or satisfying. I'm not going to get into the details, but I'll say that Iwe smoke quite heavily during these times in the bedroom. I only smoke an average of 4-6 cigs a day on average (although if given the right atmosphere I'm a chainsmokee), but in the bedroom I usually chain 4-6 in less than a half hour. My overall point is that I love it, I don't feel bad about it, and I have no intention of stopping. And that's my confession. Am I a bad mother because I don't worry about the fact that our bedroom reeks of smoke? My hubs mentioned to me the other day that we should try to find a way to air out the romm since we have window unit ACs in right now. My response was basically "why?" It's our room and we smoke. What's the big deal? I know that I'm a wonderful mom. In fact, we're both great parents. We provide a clean, loving home, and I would never smoke around my kids. But mommy and daddy need their special time, and at least for the foreseeable future that includes ciggys in the bedroom.
BTW. For any of you ladies that do smoke, you really should give it a try during sex. You might never go back.