How long were you married?
How long before you started dating again?
Do you think there should be a waiting preiod? Why/why not?
For me, I was married not quite a year. Long story. Went on my first date (no sex!) a couple weeks after he left. I think I was just looking for atttention. I knid of gave up on dating after that first date, it was a disaster! LOL About 10 days after the divorce was final I got involved with a friend and it has been amazing. He is my definition of perfect!
But it's a personal choice, everyone's experience is different and it takes some longer to heal than others. I knew for a couple months that my marriage wasn't going to last. It was just a matter of him making good on his threats to leave. It still hurt like hell but I put my big girl panties on, dealt with it all, and moved on!