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If my husband has a new facebook friend I add her

Posted by on Aug. 4, 2013 at 10:11 PM
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thats my confession for the day

woman love to bash n can tke one sentence and run with it. where do i start. lol

in our marriage this is our way of introducing each other to our friends via internet the same manner we would do it in person.

his job is predominately female and most of the fb friends are females.

They always accept they know who I am.

Its no trust issue. He has even gone out to social events with them without me. I know them they know me.

most are married themselves.

it takes two seconds to add a friends. 10 minutes out of my day

It makes planning evens easier. i send ivites for bday n baby shoers etc

some are so judgemental


SOME are trying to say I am insecure and have trust issues. But I dont think people are reading what I am correctly or making just making wrong assumptions.

If I was insecure or had trust issues my husband would not be allow to go out with his co-workers who are female without me.

He even has a female best friend he goes to the movies with even now and than. 

Its just to socialize that's all. Facebook is not our relationship nor reality. And it damn sure dosent hold weight in our marriage. MY HUSBAND WOULD NEVER CHEAtT. I know that.

I knew this man since I was 15. We have the same childhood friends. Thats how we always been. No biggie. My male bestfriend is his bestfriend. Sometimes I would tease and say you stoled my bestfriend. They go out together sometimes and I even have gone out with male friends without my husband.

Stop looking for the negative and see a marriage making what it has been a problem for others. We have never had fb drama. Never. We have a good marriage. Do we have issues? What marriage dosent? Our biggest issue is daycare. But trust is not an issue.

by on Aug. 4, 2013 at 10:11 PM
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emsmom21
by Silver Member on Aug. 4, 2013 at 10:13 PM
Does that mean you don't trust him?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Aug. 4, 2013 at 10:13 PM
I don't.
Mommy2b2many
by on Aug. 4, 2013 at 10:14 PM
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I don't pay atention to who DH has on his...

Do you not trust your DH?
Cmgmqmmom
by Ruby Member on Aug. 4, 2013 at 10:14 PM
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That's a bit out of control.
Why are you married to a man you can't trust?
Sondi7
by Platinum Member on Aug. 4, 2013 at 10:15 PM
Why?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 4, 2013 at 10:15 PM
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Lol if I were the new fb friend I would probably ignore your friend request.
sweetieiv
by Ruby Member on Aug. 4, 2013 at 10:15 PM
I dont because if he accepts a friend request on facebook then it must be inocent or else he wouldnt be stupid enough to let thd world see.
villagemamma
by Platinum Member on Aug. 4, 2013 at 10:17 PM
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thats weird. I barely ever pay attention who dh adds on facebook.

sweetnsassymami
by Ruby Member on Aug. 4, 2013 at 10:19 PM
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Ooh k sound like you have major trust issues. Why not do one of those cutesy husband wife pages lol
_ClearFruit_
by on Aug. 4, 2013 at 10:26 PM
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I couldn't do that. that seems creepy to me. do you ask where he know them from.

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