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married for ten years...............what are the chances?ETA

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how many of you were married for ten years or more and ended up divorced? why?

ETA...my 18 year old sister asked me yesterday if me and dh were going to go the distance since everyone she knows is divorced. i simply answered yes. we are committed to our marriage and making it work. we married young but always make our marriage a priority. just thought i would give a little background on why the post was made. we have been married longer than anyone in our families.

Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:47 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Aug. 5, 2013 at 11:01 AM
I left my ex on our 10 year wedding anniversary. The divorce took another 3 years.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Aug. 5, 2013 at 11:01 AM

I've been married for 13 years. We're happy and still best friends. 

ConcernedCousin
by Silver Member on Aug. 5, 2013 at 11:01 AM

not I. I've been married for 4.5 years and can't wait to get divorced

fnpdocgrrl
by Bronze Member on Aug. 5, 2013 at 11:01 AM
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Our tenth anniversary is this month.....we still love the heck out of each other and have every intention of putting up with each other's shit for another 80 yrs lolol  We are best friends as well as husband/wife.  This is the way it should be.

Johariz
by Platinum Member on Aug. 5, 2013 at 11:01 AM
We almost divorced around 3 years... But now we're good and going strong. No thought of divorce in our future.
casah4
by Gold Member on Aug. 5, 2013 at 11:01 AM

 We'll be married 16 years in November and we're getting divorced.  We just grew apart and were no longer compatible. It happens.

TableforSeven
by Platinum Member on Aug. 5, 2013 at 11:01 AM

We've been married for 21 years.....definitely no divorce here.


heidi749
by Canadian on Aug. 5, 2013 at 11:01 AM

Not me, I am not really for the whole marriage thing, been with SO almost 11 years and no plans of us breaking up. My parents fall under this category, so do a few of my school friends parents, and a few other of my family member's.

Roxygurl
by Emerald Member on Aug. 5, 2013 at 11:02 AM
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Yup, they should've divorced when I was 10 or so but my mother wanted to live the SAHM life and she knew she couldn't survive alone so she waited until she found herself a rich boyfriend and then left my dad

Quoting fygfitness_mom:


Quoting Roxygurl:

My parents were married 20 years before they divorced.

Wow :-( Do you know what went wrong?

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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Aug. 5, 2013 at 11:03 AM
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Thank you :)     It is a long time. Been well worth it though. Wouldn't trade all our years together, good and bad, for anything in the world.

Quoting KaylinC03:

That's a long time, congratulations! That seems so rare nowadays. :)

Quoting Anonymous:

We're at 35 years and counting.  At this point, I don't see divorce happening 




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