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I just found out why my brother raped me. EDIT IN BLUE

Anonymous
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He raped me since I was 5 to 18. Don't ask why I never told, it's a long dramatic story.

Anyway, I found out today from my little sister that right around the time he started molesting me, he had been fondled by a male friend of my parents.

Don't get me wrong it doesn't make it right, but I'm not as mad anymore.

Does that make sense?

 

I should have mentioned, but he was 9 when he first started.

Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:13 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:13 PM
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no, I'd still hate his f#cking guts.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:14 PM
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It makes sense. I am sorry that happened to you abduction it doesn't excuse it...but atleast it wasn't out of enjoyment, rather his own hurting.
purpleducky
by Ruby Member on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:14 PM
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Yes it makes sense. HUG!!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:15 PM
It's a cycle. Most people who molest were molested themselves. Sorry you had to go through that.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:15 PM
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No, it doesn't make sense. Someone being molested is NO excuse for them to do it to someone else.  

I am so sorry you went through that.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:16 PM

i understand.. my brother tired stuff on me & once tried to rape me, but he got to excited before it could happen. he blacked mail me -- but he watched my step father molest me & my unlce tried once. so it's what they were taught!

IamMex11
by JorgematoTM on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:17 PM
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funny how others have the pieces to our puzzle.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:17 PM
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 no it isn't an excuse, but he was just 9 when it started. He must have been so confused you know?


Quoting Anonymous:

No, it doesn't make sense. Someone being molested is NO excuse for them to do it to someone else.  

I am so sorry you went through that.


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:17 PM

It is no excuse and there are many, many people who are sexually abused who don't go on to abuse others. I'm not sure that I see the coorelation between someone fondling him and him raping his sister. What is the age difference between you and your brother. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:17 PM
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My brother molested me when I was 5, he was molested by a friend's dad around 5. Everyone always used that as an excuse. My whole life after that I was terrified I was going to molest someone because that seemed to be the cycle. He was so he did it to me which meant I was gonna do it. It wasn't til I was older that I finally got counseling.
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