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I just found out why my brother raped me. EDIT IN BLUE

Anonymous
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He raped me since I was 5 to 18. Don't ask why I never told, it's a long dramatic story.

Anyway, I found out today from my little sister that right around the time he started molesting me, he had been fondled by a male friend of my parents.

Don't get me wrong it doesn't make it right, but I'm not as mad anymore.

Does that make sense?

 

I should have mentioned, but he was 9 when he first started.

Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:13 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:13 PM
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no, I'd still hate his f#cking guts.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:14 PM
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It makes sense. I am sorry that happened to you abduction it doesn't excuse it...but atleast it wasn't out of enjoyment, rather his own hurting.
purpleducky
by Ruby Member on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:14 PM
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Yes it makes sense. HUG!!

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:15 PM
It's a cycle. Most people who molest were molested themselves. Sorry you had to go through that.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:15 PM
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No, it doesn't make sense. Someone being molested is NO excuse for them to do it to someone else.  

I am so sorry you went through that.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:16 PM

i understand.. my brother tired stuff on me & once tried to rape me, but he got to excited before it could happen. he blacked mail me -- but he watched my step father molest me & my unlce tried once. so it's what they were taught!

IamMex11
by JorgematoTM on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:17 PM
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funny how others have the pieces to our puzzle.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:17 PM
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 no it isn't an excuse, but he was just 9 when it started. He must have been so confused you know?


Quoting Anonymous:

No, it doesn't make sense. Someone being molested is NO excuse for them to do it to someone else.  

I am so sorry you went through that.


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:17 PM

It is no excuse and there are many, many people who are sexually abused who don't go on to abuse others. I'm not sure that I see the coorelation between someone fondling him and him raping his sister. What is the age difference between you and your brother. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Aug. 5, 2013 at 10:17 PM
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My brother molested me when I was 5, he was molested by a friend's dad around 5. Everyone always used that as an excuse. My whole life after that I was terrified I was going to molest someone because that seemed to be the cycle. He was so he did it to me which meant I was gonna do it. It wasn't til I was older that I finally got counseling.
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