I could stay married, if he still loves me and wants to stay married to me. I would seek therapy with him because of the cheating and because of him not being "in love" with me anymore.
Cheated, HELL NO. That is a major dealbreaker. If he is not "in love" with me anymore, that would make me turn the other way.
I did for a while. Then I came ot my senses and realized I was worth more than that. We are both much happier now that we're out of that relationship.
Yes. It's not grounds for divorce but obviously we would need to reevaluate our marriage and focus on the issues that had come to light.
nope. if he cheats, he doesn't respect me and i'm with the once a cheater always a cheater thought process. I told my husband when we first started dating, if you ever want to cheat on me, just let me know and leave me first bc if he ever did it without my knowledge then came back to bed with me and risked giving me an std or killing me (if he ended up with HIV), it would be the last person he ever slept with. I really can't see my hubby ever doing that but i'd be so much more mad if he cheated than just left.
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