I've been saying I'm definitely DONE since my 3rd (he's under 2)
But when I start to think about "permanant" action to make it so (tubal, vasectomy) it makes me sad! The idea of never even having the option, makes me anxious.
I'm not sure what freaks me out more, having another or deciding not to, if that makes sense.
I think DH would be on board if I really wanted another.
- I can't picture baby ds being very good with a newborn
-baby ds is a handful, harder than the other 2 by a lot, what if new baby is as well?
-money, although we would make it work, it will be that much tighter
-I'm not ready RIGHT now to have another, but it'd have to happen within 1-2 years tops, I don't want to be in the toddler stage for 10 years, plus I'm already 32, not interested in popping out babies in my 40s
How do I know?!
There are days where I thank my lucky stars I'm done, there are times when I'd like to do it all again, is that just me trying to hold on to the faint ticking of my biological clock lol?