My mother is hosting a small shower for my 3rd son. It will be in the evening and just close family, like 20 people. My life is really crazy right now, dh left for someone else about 2 months ago. I am living at my moms till my apartment is ready. I have everything my baby will need. I just think it's tacky to have a shower again. I have tried to tell her no but that gets me no where.