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My SIL wants one of my babies

Anonymous
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I am on my 3ird pregnancy and have 2 healthy children (ages 3 and 6) and this time I am having twins. My SIL can't have kids (long story) and has wanted them for a long time (she has been married 10 years and they have been trying to start a family ever since).

She has asked me to surrogate for her a year go, I said no. Now she asked (seriously, not joking) if she could have one of the babies. She doesn't get what the big deal would be since me and DH would still have a baby ("you weren't trying for twins" she said), she would have a baby and the kids would still be close.

This woman is coo coo for coco puffs. First she asks me to surrogate for her, then she asks for one of my babies????

update.

Many of you are suggesting they adopt


They could afford to foster to adopt, which is basically free, but you wait a long time for a baby and then, often, the baby goes back to the parents, so they don't want to do that. But as far as regular adoption, they don't have the money for it.

Some have suggested hiring a paid surrogate, they can't afford that either.

Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 10, 2013 at 9:31 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Aug. 10, 2013 at 9:31 PM

BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Aug. 10, 2013 at 9:31 PM

BUMP!

Anonandon
by on Aug. 10, 2013 at 9:32 PM
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I wouldn't leave my kid alone with her ever.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 10, 2013 at 9:32 PM
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Why not be a surrogate p

Poison_Ivy_86
by on Aug. 10, 2013 at 9:32 PM

She's desperate I get it but fuck that.  How would you even begin to CHOOSE which one she'd have.  That's just bizarre.

Toxic.Stardust
by on Aug. 10, 2013 at 9:33 PM
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I feel sorry for her situation but wow!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Aug. 10, 2013 at 9:33 PM
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Because I have no interest in going through the pain and trouble ofpregnancy and delivery if I am not going to end up with a child.



Quoting Anonymous:

Why not be a surrogate p



Toxic.Stardust
by on Aug. 10, 2013 at 9:33 PM
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because she doesn't want to?

Quoting Anonymous:

Why not be a surrogate p


Toonkasmommy
by Platinum Member on Aug. 10, 2013 at 9:34 PM
Wtf? Don't trust that bitch.
Mrs.Kubalabuku
by Ruby Member on Aug. 10, 2013 at 9:34 PM
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She's off her rocker.  I hope she gets into some therapy.

But I wouldn't leave my child with her at ALL.  Not for a moment...

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