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If you have had anal sex

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I finally mention to my dh i want to  try it and we are trying to figure out when we can do it, you know the kids being here all the time.

I was just wondering for the first time what is the best lube? He mention KY jelly, but i am not sure?

can you ladies help me? I am a little nervous.


Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 14, 2013 at 12:46 AM
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by Anonymous 6 on Aug. 14, 2013 at 12:58 AM

We use anal lube from a porn shop.  

by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 14, 2013 at 12:59 AM
You're welcome. Assuming you have vaginal sex while your kids are home then it wouldn't be any different other than the place he puts it.

Quoting Anonymous:

Thanks. i worry about the kids because i have a 13  year old who doesn't fall asleep early. sometimes she is in bed but is up when i go to bed. he mention let my mom take them to a movie because she is also moving in next week, which is going to be really weird if she is here too.

Quoting Anonymous:

Don't worry if the kids are there, do it when you would normally have vaginal sex. Use Astroglide, it is the closest lube you can buy that mimics your natural lubrication. Go slow, realize it may take more than one session. Make sure you are not heavily buzzed while trying it, make sure your partner listens to you as you go. It is possible to get microscopic tears inside of you if you are not relaxed and well lubed. Tell your partner in order for it to work you must be the boss or it's not happening.

by on Aug. 14, 2013 at 12:59 AM
Just at the drug store. It's a pretty normal product. Little bit goes a long way and not goopy.

Quoting Anonymous:

where do i get  that.

Quoting Sj218:

Astroglide and a glass of wine

by on Aug. 14, 2013 at 1:00 AM
Aquaphor. Though I'm spelling it wrong.
by Gold Member on Aug. 14, 2013 at 1:00 AM

Astroglide works best for us! And just relax, honestly for the first time have a few drinks (like no more than 3, 1 if your a lightweight) just so you can relax if you're really nervous

by on Aug. 14, 2013 at 1:02 AM
why would you do that?
by Anonymous 7 on Aug. 14, 2013 at 1:03 AM
Your natural lube works fine. And just stay RELAXED.
by Bronze Member on Aug. 14, 2013 at 1:03 AM

ky silkee is the only thing that works for us

by on Aug. 14, 2013 at 1:06 AM
Good luck not my thing
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by Anonymous 8 on Aug. 14, 2013 at 1:07 AM
Yes, KY works fine. My advice is to relax. If you don't it WILL hurt like hell. Get each other turned on. Ya know, kissing, rubbing and all that good stuff. Have him place some lube on his finger. Have him place his finger just inside your bum and move it in and out slowly and little by little have him put it in deeper. That will get you used to something going in there and loosen you up a bit. Next, have him place the head of his penis just at the opening to your bum and have him push into you ever so gently. Have him STOP if it hurts too much. have him keep pushing in slowly till you tell him enough. Keep in mind you might not be able to take all of him at first. In fact his finger might be enough for one night. You kind of have to take it in steps. Gentle and slow and very, very wet. I promise you once you are comfortable with anal you will love it. It feels incredible. After a while you can use a dildo in your pussy while he fucks your ass and I'm telling you it's the best orgasm in the world. Plus it'll feel amazing for him too. Take a shower before so you are clean. Take a shower afterwards too. And remember the biggest rule of anal sex. NEVER ASS TO PUSSY! You can go pussy to ass but never the other way. And most certainly NEVER ASS TO MOUTH, for obvious reasons. You risk big time infections if you don't heed the Enjoy!
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