My 9yo DD still wets the bed most nights. And she likes to sleep with us (yeah - family bed at 9. We kind of like it, and yes, she has her own room and bed). She wears diapers at night to keep the bed dry - our bed.
And yes, we've tried alarms (woke us up, not her), have been to the doctor (not worried until puberty), waking her up (didn't really help, and the interrupted sleep wasn't worth it), and making her do her own laundry (works when she sleeps in her bed, but she'd rather wear a diaper than do laundry - lol). We haven't tried meds, but don't want after seeing the possible side effects.
Anyone else in a similar situation?