My husband and I are divorcing after 10 years. We are Sharing custody of the kids and haven't had any problems with negotiations. The one problem -- Dilbert our St. Bernard. We have had him for almost 9 years and bought him together from a rescue one Christmas. We both want him. At first we agreed Dilbert would just go with the kids but some days he or I will just be getting the kids from school so the other would have to make a special trip to take Dilbert. I don't think it's fair he takes him when I am the one keeping the house. He has lived here his whole life... I don't want him to freak out. I feed and walk Dilbert all the time. My husband insists he does but he doesn't. We didn't even have to get separate lawyer for the kids custody but I am thinking about getting on for the dog. He's being unreasonable and he's not taking t dog. Am I being silly?