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I think it's abuse and I should leave.

Anonymous
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My husband is a very loving man when he wants something. But he's also a very angry man when we argue he calls me names and threatens to leave me.

Little backstory we've been together for almost 3 years we have a beautiful 11 months old. He doesn't work right now and doesn't want me working until our son is weaned. We live in a friends parents house and he's had a BAD attitude with helping me take care of our son.I do all the household chores i bring him his plate i cook for him at 3 in the morning.all he does all day is play video games. he calls me stupid and retarded tells me i have vocies in my head and that i need to lose weight. (i'm only 170) he treats me like garbage he goes behind my back and tells his girl friends that he wishes he was with them or that they are prettier than me. I feel like crap all the time. He won't let me talk to any of my other friend he screams at me if i talk to anyone else about our probems. i try to be the perfect wife for him but i'm always angering him. everyone i talk to thinks i should leave because its abuse?

Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 18, 2013 at 12:50 PM
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starlight91
by on Aug. 18, 2013 at 12:54 PM
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well nobody can change it but YOU.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Aug. 18, 2013 at 12:55 PM
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Uh, yeah, that's abuse. Leave.

chelsielove2
by Member on Aug. 18, 2013 at 12:55 PM
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I would leave him because I know I deserve better than that. Sounds like he doesn't respect you, your child will view that and assume that's how things are supposed to be.
NonaScheib38
by Gold Member on Aug. 18, 2013 at 12:55 PM
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Yup. Abuse. It never gets better and it's not your job to change him. Run.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Aug. 18, 2013 at 12:55 PM
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Leave. He's an immature child.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Aug. 18, 2013 at 12:56 PM
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Yes I'd leave. I'm sorry you deserve better NO ONE deserves to be treated like that. Don't be a doormat
locaporbebe
by Gold Member on Aug. 18, 2013 at 12:57 PM
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Leave
kamrynlily07
by Silver Member on Aug. 18, 2013 at 12:59 PM
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This

Quoting Anonymous:

Leave. He's an immature child.
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rubirubi
by on Aug. 18, 2013 at 1:00 PM
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 sounds like he needs his ass beat.

sweetgrlangel
by Bronze Member on Aug. 18, 2013 at 1:01 PM
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