I have never been so fed up in my life! I never take my rings off unless I take a shower (im afraid they will slip of and go down the drain) and after I shower they go right back on well my husband thinks its okay to take his off whenever, go to the fire station where all the sluts around here use to hang out and ya know leave his ring! its bad enough that fire department is pissing me off to the point I told him if he didn't quit I was leaving (he hasn't quit btw) its an obsession to him! he has the scanner on his phone ON constantly, his pager is on public all the time and his radio is too! I never get any peace! im constantly hearing a department get paged out or him getting paged out and no matter how simple the call is (as far as needing people) he will leave running thru the house like his ass is on fire! doesn't matter if I need help or anything!
if I ask him to turn them down he acts like a 5 year old! so I was laying in the bed and he left the room well I rolled onto his side of the bed and found his ring under the remote control! I was so pissed, it got worse when I came into the house and he wasn't home! I figured where he was but didn't leave a note or anything! I text him this big long rant and basically told him if he could leave his ring around like he thought our marriage didn't mean shit well mine wasn't gonna be worn when we left the house or even if I left by myself!
needless to say when I got out of the shower he was home, still didn't put his ring on (I hid it in my dads room as punishment) I came in the living room sat down and haven't said more than two words to him the whole time! am I being childish probably! but this isn't the first time this has happened, he actually lost it at one point! I swear he thinks its a joke but to me its serious business!
I SHOULD HAVE MENTIONED HE IS A VOLUNTEER ITS NOT A JOB IT SHOULD BE A HOBBY BUT TO HIM ITS AN OBSESSION HE DOES NOT GET PAID FOR IT OR ANYTHING.
on Aug. 21, 2013 at 12:57 PM