Okay so a week ago my boys Aunt(on there fathers side) ask to take my boys this weekend. She wants to take them all weekend so they can go with to a family reunion. My first question was if there father would be there( he is not aloud around the boys). I told her I would think about. Well she just emailed me a little while ago and asked for my answer. I told her no, for one it is my nephews bday on Sat and him and the boys are very close. Two she can't tell me that for sure that there father is not going. She then went off on me telling me that I'm keeping the boys from that side of the family and that it is not right that they can't go. She also thinks that their father should take me to court for this BS, that there is no reason he or any of his family should not be able to see the kids. For one I never said she couldn't see the kids, if there dad is going to be there they will not be. His gf is in jail for MURDERING my 22 month old Angel and it is still under investigation. Its just not going to happen and Im not saying ever just that my kids haven't been away from me more then a couple hours since it happened and that was for court.
Should I feel bad? Am I doing the right thing or I just bring a over protective mother?