My sil, I was there for her when she had 2 miscarriages, she was upset and rightfully so, those babies she wanted........she was far from ready for them but they were wanted. So she gave birth to a little girl in Dec. of 2010. She left her abusive dh in May of last year, she is still married to him. Now she in a relationship with another guy, he is great for her. He has helped her and she is such a better person now, no longer bitter and thinking that everyone else owes her for her "shitty" life. She is going to have a baby sometime around Thanksgiving. Well I was going through some medical papers tonight and somehow some of her stuff got mixed in with mine............when I looked I noticed an ultrasound, she was 6w and 2 days pregnant in Nov. of last year, she didn't start dating this guy until Feb of this year......it didn't make sense, so I looked more, the papers with this ultrasound was for an abortion!! I don't understand how she can be upset about two miscarriages but then go on to have an abortion, and show no remorse for it or even any emotion for it......I'm not mad, and I won't say anything to her, its her body and her choice. I still love her, but how could she do that? ok well maybe I am a little mad, I tried for so long to have my oldest and my youngest babies, and for her she has been pregnant a total of 5 times now, and it just pisses me off that all she has to do is practically look at a guy and she is fucking knocked up, even after she had an abortion. I am thankful for my niece and my soon to be nephew but I will never understand how she could want these two and not the one she aborted......I am at a loss here.