I'm the ''bad guy'' because I'm not willing to starve my 3 kids amd myself?
In his pocket. He gives the 2 older kids and I a small allowance, but we don't have anywhere near the spending money he has. So, mostly we just get to have fun watching him spend HIS money.
We left at about lunch time, and he refused to either stop for lunch or stop at home. He said it's stupid to stop and get lunch when he just bought 500$ of groceries. My answer to that is that is that we aren't AT home where the groceries are. I knew we weren't going to be home until 3, and we usually have dinner at 5.
So, when we were at Wall Mart I told him the kids and I had to go do something, and I took them in to the McDonald's in the store. Before you bash me there's only one restaurant in Wall Mart and it's McDonalds, and we only go there when it's either that or go hungry.
So, now D.h. has the nerve to be angry that I fed my children and myself. I used my own $, so why should it bother him?