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I'm the ''bad guy'' because I'm not willing to starve my 3 kids amd myself?

Anonymous
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Every payday weekend d.h. drags us around to several different stores so he can spend his entire paycheck before it burns a hole
In his pocket. He gives the 2 older kids and I a small allowance, but we don't have anywhere near the spending money he has. So, mostly we just get to have fun watching him spend HIS money.

We left at about lunch time, and he refused to either stop for lunch or stop at home. He said it's stupid to stop and get lunch when he just bought 500$ of groceries. My answer to that is that is that we aren't AT home where the groceries are. I knew we weren't going to be home until 3, and we usually have dinner at 5.

So, when we were at Wall Mart I told him the kids and I had to go do something, and I took them in to the McDonald's in the store. Before you bash me there's only one restaurant in Wall Mart and it's McDonalds, and we only go there when it's either that or go hungry.

So, now D.h. has the nerve to be angry that I fed my children and myself. I used my own $, so why should it bother him?
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 24, 2013 at 4:41 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 24, 2013 at 4:43 PM
Bump
bowribbonmama
by Ruby Member on Aug. 24, 2013 at 4:43 PM
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He sounds like a controlling douche.
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anotherhalf
by on Aug. 24, 2013 at 4:47 PM
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There is so much wrong with that whole situation. First being your dh sounds like a controlling selfish ass.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 24, 2013 at 4:47 PM
He sure can be.


Quoting bowribbonmama:

He sounds like a controlling douche.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 24, 2013 at 4:48 PM
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You married an asshole.

WHY DO YOU PUT UP WITH IT?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 24, 2013 at 4:49 PM
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Sounds like you need to take your kid(s) and leave your jerk of a husband.  

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 24, 2013 at 4:50 PM
I know.


Quoting anotherhalf:

There is so much wrong with that whole situation. First being your dh sounds like a controlling selfish ass.

momNstinks
by Bronze Member on Aug. 24, 2013 at 4:50 PM

bad 

ColleenF30
by Lube Girl on Aug. 24, 2013 at 4:51 PM

I miss having subway in wal mart back home.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 24, 2013 at 4:52 PM

He has mental problems.  Divorce him or seek help

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