First off everytime dh calls to invite her over she always asks what we are doing before she says nay or ya. If it's not something she wants to do she will say they are busy without even asking her mom. She never calls dh between visits just to talk. Dh is the one always calling. When dh had stitches his daughter knew about it but didn't call. When my son (her half brother) had surgery she never called. She invited herself over for christmas on her first visite 2 1/2 months ago, everytime she comes over she has to know everything (how much we paid for something, where we are going, when we are leaving, why we did or are doing what we are doing ect), she told her friend that dh would get her and her friend into six flags without asking dh first, she never asks questions about dh to try and get to know him, she never seems interested when dh makes conversation about himself or asks questions about her to get to know her.
To me it seems like she only wants a relationship with dh hecause she wants stuff from him. Stuff she isn't getting from her mom. Maybe I'm wrong but that's how I view the situation and dh says he's starting to feel the same. It's been two weeks since her last visit. She hasn't called at all, asked to come over or nothing. Dh asked me what he should do. I don't know what the answer is. What would you tell him to do?