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I don't want you at my wedding!!!

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
I can NOT STAND my DFs mother but we always just put up with each other anyway but for the past month and a half I haven't been allowed to go over to their house with DF. My LO isnt his and thats a big reason I think they don't like me but they knew that the whole time I was pregnant. Now my LO is now 4 mo. And my DF finally told me that his parents just don't think im good for him and don't like me.

I can honestly say I've tried to do everything in my power to be nice to them and show them how much I care for their son. His dad was even trying to push us to get married and then outta no where they hate me. Idk if DF told them something and isnt telling me but idk...

Anyway I don't want his mom around my child or at our wedding because of all the shit I've heard she's said about me and how she's been acting. She comments all the time how my LO IS NOT her grandchild but of course DF said we wont get married if she's not there. So I told him that I don't want her to speak to me its my day and ill just want to punch her in the face.

Sorry if its confusing im so tired, sick, and on medication right now and now im just pissed.
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 25, 2013 at 9:37 AM
Replies (11-20):
JLS2388
by on Aug. 25, 2013 at 9:44 AM

If he goes over there while you are not welcome then clearly, he doesn't care much for you.

brettsmomma
by ~Tammie~ on Aug. 25, 2013 at 9:44 AM

But allowing his mom to disrespect the baby and his future wife is being a mamma's boy. he needs to take a stand for them. My hubby would never go to his moms house if they specifically said i had to stay behind.  

Quoting Anonymous:

Wanting his mom at his wedding hardly makes him a mama's boy.


Quoting Anonymous:

Don't marry the mommas boy!!


Photo: -Randi.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Aug. 25, 2013 at 9:45 AM

SO if he does not insult and cut of his Mother from his life, he's a mamas boy?

Quoting Anonymous:

Don't marry the mommas boy!!



JLS2388
by on Aug. 25, 2013 at 9:45 AM
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No but going to his mother's home while the woman he is going to marry isn't welcome does.



Quoting Anonymous:

Wanting his mom at his wedding hardly makes him a mama's boy.


Quoting Anonymous:

Don't marry the mommas boy!!



Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Aug. 25, 2013 at 9:48 AM
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Getting married will change everything.  Your df/dh will stop stirring up shit between you and his parents and your in-laws will suddenly love you.  Weddings are like magic.

RUN.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Aug. 25, 2013 at 9:49 AM

Do not marry this guy!  Mommy will always be first with him.  It would be one thing if she didn't like you and her told her get over it or take a flying leap.  But no, this guy is still attached to her by the cord and won't defend you ever.  You'll be setting your child up for a lifetime of being treated like a second class citizen by her and that is horrible and preventable.  Find a real man later on, don't settle for this weak kneed mama's boy. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 25, 2013 at 9:50 AM
Yeah his ass saying he won't marry we unless his mommy is there is a mommas boy!! He does nothing to defend her it sounds like. That's a mommas boy!!


Quoting Anonymous:

Wanting his mom at his wedding hardly makes him a mama's boy.




Quoting Anonymous:

Don't marry the mommas boy!!


Val99
by Ruby Member on Aug. 25, 2013 at 9:50 AM

Sounds like your df is using this as an excuse not to get married.  

If it were me, I would invite everyone, but have one person allocated to escort anyone out who causes trouble.  If you have it at a venue that does weddings all the time, management and the maitre d' will normally assist. Try to let the anger go because it isn't healthy for you.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 25, 2013 at 9:50 AM
He isn't defending her to his momma and putting momma first. She needs to run!!


Quoting JLS2388:

No but going to his mother's home while the woman he is going to marry isn't welcome does.




Quoting Anonymous:

Wanting his mom at his wedding hardly makes him a mama's boy.





Quoting Anonymous:

Don't marry the mommas boy!!






Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Aug. 25, 2013 at 9:51 AM

I'm sure their is more to the story. 

My FIL didn't speak to me until my DS(his grandson) was 2yo. He hold my DS 2 times during 2 year period.  We lived in the same house when my MIL wouldn't even take my DS for a walk while I was sick, while she took her other grad daughter and would go to the park with her for hours. Now my FIL can't live without my kids and telling everyone that they are the best kids. My MIL and I are BBF. If you are a smart woman you will find a way to be "friends" with them, if not, don't get married at all. 

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