I have noticed long time ago that she has some weaknesses in manners. Dh accused me of being too lofty and said that if I cherish a friend I would accept her drawbacks.
Her son's scratching everyone around. That was the reason he was expelled from the day care and several baby sitters left. Few weeks ago he scratched my dd's face. I've been avoiding her ever after but after her numerous calls today I felt uncomfortable to point another reason and accepted her invitation for dinner in a restaurant. When we came my dh asked her weather she had cut his son's nails and wanted to see himslef. She raised from the table and started to shout "Who the fuck are you to check my ds nails? As I can see your dd has much longer!" Dh replied that our dd doesn't scratch anyone so the size of her nails have no importance and that he won't appologize for wanting to see for himself if dd's not threatened with another scar. My GF went on shouting "My kid's not a monster and you're nobody to check his nails"
I was about to raise and go but dh made me a sign to sit back and finish my dinner. By the end of the dinner my GF's son scratched my DD's arm severely.
I think I'm done with them, not only because her kid's aggressive but because I think she went too far with her shouts and this friendly drawback is a little bit too much for me. Do you agree with me?
P.S. Her husband stood quiet all the time and said nothing