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Please stop blaming "The other woman"

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
95% of the time they don't even know that the man they are seeing is married/ or in a committed relationship..

So really it's the other woman who is "wronged" also if not even more.

Stop blaming the "other woman" and blame your pig of a husband.
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 25, 2013 at 10:04 PM
Replies (51-60):
Kazoo22
by Platinum Member on Aug. 25, 2013 at 11:10 PM

Do you have sources to back up your statistics?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 16 on Aug. 25, 2013 at 11:10 PM
Well he may have wanted laid, he doesn't want "her". He hasn't spoke to her since I found out. He wants nothing to do with her. He's fighting to make our marriage work. So I'm not sure what point you're trying to make.

Quoting Anonymous:

I guess he wanted her then.  If he didn't, he wouldn't have cheated.


Quoting Anonymous:

Yes



Quoting Anonymous:

Did he cheat on you with her?




Quoting Anonymous:

My husbands whore knew he was married. She didnt care. She wanted my husband.








Kaybean
by Ruby Member on Aug. 25, 2013 at 11:11 PM
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I can't stand when people think this way. Any good person with morals has respect and consideration for other human beings. We as a society, should be able to expect .


Quoting Anonymous:

Whether the other woman knows or not, she owes you no loyalty.



Your husband does, though.



She can't steal him or "wreck " a home, either.



It's the husband's fault, and many times, the wife's fault, too...



Yeah, I said it.

theresa13183
by Platinum Member on Aug. 25, 2013 at 11:12 PM
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i think a women who knowingly sees a married man is in fact a homewrecker and i dont think i've met a woman who would do that who i would call a good person

yes the husband played a part but she knew he had a family and should have had more respect for herself than to be with a married man....he has a wife..find somebody single



Quoting Anonymous:

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

Truth hurts, huh?

Quoting Anonymous:

F*ck u




Quoting Anonymous:

Whether the other woman knows or not, she owes you no loyalty.





Your husband does, though.





She can't steal him or "wreck " a home, either.





It's the husband's fault, and many times, the wife's fault, too...





Yeah, I said it.



ivy801
by Gold Member on Aug. 25, 2013 at 11:12 PM

Don't worry if this were to happen my rage would be all for him but the other woman best keep out of my way while I deal with it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 18 on Aug. 25, 2013 at 11:12 PM

I am the daughter of a chronic "other woman".  And no, I'm not proud of it.  It horrifys me actually.  Trust me when I tell you that the other woman (if she knows about it) should be blamed.  My mother has destroyed marriages and families.  Her most recent boyfriend was married when she met him.  She started to date him, convinced him to leave his wife and family.  He now has almost no contact with his two sons.  There are no pictures of them in their apartment, and my mom acts like they don't exist.  I'm so ashamed of her.  I'm in tears right now, because it makes me sick.  So yes, sometimes (more often than not I suspect) the other woman should be blamed too.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 19 on Aug. 25, 2013 at 11:13 PM

I don't blame them. I think they are worthless whores. Too nasty to even contemplate! 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 14 on Aug. 25, 2013 at 11:17 PM
She couldn't have done it if he didn't let her.

A happy home can not be wrecked.

A man with half a brain wouldn't let it happen.

If in fact, he's happy at home.

Period.

Quoting theresa13183:

i think a women who knowingly sees a married man is in fact a homewrecker and i dont think i've met a woman who would do that who i would call a good person

yes the husband played a part but she knew he had a family and should have had more respect for herself than to be with a married man....he has a wife..find somebody single




Quoting Anonymous:

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA.



Truth hurts, huh?



Quoting Anonymous:

F*ck u







Quoting Anonymous:

Whether the other woman knows or not, she owes you no loyalty.







Your husband does, though.







She can't steal him or "wreck " a home, either.







It's the husband's fault, and many times, the wife's fault, too...







Yeah, I said it.





Melissa_4
by Ruby Member on Aug. 25, 2013 at 11:18 PM

The "other woman" is not always innocent.  Some of them actually target a married man to get the benefits of an illicit affair without having to deal with a full-time man.  They actually use the wife finding out as a form of blackmail so that if they decide they don't want to see the guy anymore, they threaten to make his life a living hell.  Sometimes, the other woman is actually the persuer in the relationship....and very opportunistic, psychotic, creative liar, and knows how to totally play the husband and wife brilliantly.  

Anonymous
by Anonymous 14 on Aug. 25, 2013 at 11:19 PM
Would've, should've, could've.

The fact of the matter is, this is the REAL world, and no woman can make a man stray if he doesn't want to.

Quoting Kaybean:

I can't stand when people think this way. Any good person with morals has respect and consideration for other human beings. We as a society, should be able to expect .




Quoting Anonymous:

Whether the other woman knows or not, she owes you no loyalty.





Your husband does, though.





She can't steal him or "wreck " a home, either.





It's the husband's fault, and many times, the wife's fault, too...





Yeah, I said it.

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