These are some of the craziest things I've read on here.
You're a bad parent if...
You watch your children play on the playground - not interfere, just WATCH them.
You take a misbehaving child out of a store instead of spanking them publically for the satisfaction of the other possibly-annoyed patrons.
You let your two year old stand up in the pew at church, instead of forcing them to sit still and listen. Not run around, not scream and cry, not stand ON the bench, but put their feet or butt on the floor to color or play quietly.
If your baby has rolls on their arms, because you're condoning their obesity.
You live in a small house or apartment.
You had children before getting a degree.
Your house gets messy, even just on occasion.
Now, to me these are things that fall outside of the mommy wars / debates. These are things that are just bizarre to me and I can't reconcile them with my own common sense. lol.