I have two kids with my ex and my bf has one by his ex. He pays $500 in child support every month,we don't get get into each other's business about our exes until he called me angry one day saying how his ex lives beyond her means living in a house with a $1000 mortgage, $800 carnote with a $1100 income. He said she basically tries to live off of the child support he pays and the child support her other ex pays. He then went on to say that everytime she cant pay a bill, she calls him for help and he say he gives her her child support early...weeks later when something else goes wrong, she calls him for more help again after he already paid his child support and sometimes he helps. I understand his daughter lives with her mom, but its not my boyfriend responsibility to help her with her bills when her cs runs out. It's really starting to upset me.