do you tell your husband everything? would you tell him about this?
Ok im going to have a vbac and signed a consent form today where it says all the risks. Im not sure I want to show him cause I think it will scare him and he would not let me do it. I know that its my body and there is really nothing he could do to stop me but in the mean while I have to live with him, and we would be constantly arguing about it. I don't know if I should show it to him or just let him be on board with it as he is now? He knows that there are risks but this does seem like its the absolute worst case scenarios. My doctor talked to me about it and assured me that if there was a problem they would know and id be getting a csec before it could cause and problems for me and baby. She said that they will watch me very close and that I don't need to worry because it is really just for liability issues.
** so I decided that i would just let him read it and if he wanted to ask questions id deal with it. He came home and I pulled out the paper he asked what it was and I told him it was the consent to vbac and if he wanted to read it. ..he said no. :/ ehh I guess I worry about stuff too much.