Sometimes 1 little word is all it takes...............
and that word is LAWYER!
I am on county assisstance right now. We just moved, and needed a little help.
DH cant work due to his disabilities(please dont ask cuz if i tell then that kinda ruins being anon you know)
So the county is helping us out. I told them i only want it a few months, just to get on our feet.
I am working full time.
So I get a letter from CS. I called them and arranged a meeting.
They explained that they need to go after my ds's bio dad for CS since they are helping us financially.
Ok i can understand why.
I filed a good cause claim. Gave them his arrest record
They denied it.
I filed it because he was mentally and emotionally abusive to me after i got pregnant. I found out about child abuse/inj neglect charges, and dui, and check fraud charges after we seperated and he started denying my son.
After i left him i was informed that he was in prison on an old charge i never knew about. Child abuse/inj neglect
against his son -__- a son i never knew about.
He was a very good liar and manipulator.
So after they denied my claim, i called a lawyer.
He gave me advise and told me contact through email or regular mail from now on. Leave a paper trail with them so they cant claim anything.
So i called them up, got their email address. i emailed them his conviction, which is public knowledge.
I also informed them i have contacted a Lawyer and will continue to do so until this matter is settled.
I got an email the next day telling me my good cause claim has been approved! they will review it in a year!
I called the Lawyer and told him and he was happy for me and he told me that if i ever need advise or any problems occur to call him.
ugh just needed to get this out!