Okay Im obviously doing something wrong but I have no idea what
My DS is almost four and is not potty trained. I have tried everything I can think of. I have tried rewards, I have tried repercussions (time out or loss of electronics), I have checked out books and movies from the library, I have taken him in 20 minute intervals and had him try. We bought a seat that goes on the regular toliet and a potty seat that goes on the floor and makes a car noise when you "flush". I tried putting him back in diapers, tried pull ups. I'm at a loss what am I doing wrong?
When I take him in intervals he waits and then goes on the floor, chair or couch as soon as he leaves the bathroom. When I put pull-ups on him he just pulls them down and goes wherever he is. The diapers he hates and rips them off no matter how many times I put them back on and no matter the consequence. I tried if he went potty all day in the potty with no accidents we would make homemade pizza (his favorite) so he did he went all day in the potty then as soon as I got up from the dinner table to help my youngest he took off hid under his blankets and peed in his bed!! The consequences mean nothing he doesn't care I can take away everything he doesn't care he will sit and have a conversation with the wall. I make him clean up his own messes (with help and supervision) doesn't phase him.
What am I doing wrong? Help!!