So long story short. I stopped talking to my dads parents about 6 or 7 years ago for reasons I am just not getting into here because its alot. Well "grandpa" had to have emergency surgery last week due to an aneurism in the stomach and apparently they found something in the veins in the leg at that point also and fixed it. Apparently he has been having issues since the surgery and they had to take him back into tonight for emergency surgery again. My brother said that he had a colon stroke and has to have and osteomy bag because they are taking out the colon and he is going to die within the week because of colon removal. He told me to go up there to pay my last respects and I said what for he stopped being grandpa to me a long time ago? Apparently I am a heartless cunt for saying that and refusing to go up there.
I was looking at him when he told me about the stroke and the bag and I know either he is lying or someone he talked to is lying because you can live without your colon and you can live on a bag. We have crohns in our family and I have it. I know that it's very possible to live w/o the colon and with a bag. I hate when people lie about this stuff in particular.
It's bad enough his wife has tried to come in my lane at work and try to manipulate me and used my daughters fathers recent death as a way back in my life.
It's hard not to feel like this is some big manipulation yet again. Do I feel sad that this is happening? Yes. Do I feel the need to talk to him? No
Maybe I just the heartless bitch my brother claims me to be. Oh well
on Aug. 30, 2013 at 11:50 PM