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S/O3 I ended up telling my SO about sleeping with my ex during our break

Anonymous
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I feel so relieved and he was happy I was honest with him because he suspected something anyway and was getting pissed that I was being quiet about it.

He just said that he didn't blame me because he left me in the dark and he acknowledges that it was stupid to do that to me if he expected me to stay and wait. 

ahh sigh of relief. 

We had some great making up and it opened up the communication more. 

I know most of you advised me not to say anything, but thats the thing about me, I cannot keep a secret.

Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 1, 2013 at 4:55 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 1, 2013 at 4:57 AM
Missed your earlier posts I guess... Glad he took it so well
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Sep. 1, 2013 at 4:59 AM

LOL  This has been a few day long posting chain.  

http://www.cafemom.com/group/115189/forums/read/18985295/S_O2_Sex_while_on_break_the_update

Thats the 2nd post but it reiterates the first in it

Quoting Anonymous:

Missed your earlier posts I guess... Glad he took it so well


JulietAngel89
by Platinum Member on Sep. 1, 2013 at 5:00 AM
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oh gosh.. If he was ok with that I would be wondering what he did on your break..

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Sep. 1, 2013 at 5:02 AM
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You were on a break and I'd bet money he slept with someone or many someones too

SyllabaryBisque
by on Sep. 1, 2013 at 5:03 AM
I've gotta say that I would be wondering this as well.

Quoting JulietAngel89:

oh gosh.. If he was ok with that I would be wondering what he did on your break..

justpeachy71904
by peachy on Sep. 1, 2013 at 5:11 AM
yEa, did you ask this? Because if he was so chill about it I would be wondering

Quoting SyllabaryBisque:

I've gotta say that I would be wondering this as well.



Quoting JulietAngel89:

oh gosh.. If he was ok with that I would be wondering what he did on your break..

Punchyobuns
by on Sep. 1, 2013 at 5:20 AM
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I would have told him. Glad it went well.

siennasmamma
by Gold Member on Sep. 1, 2013 at 5:32 AM
Glad he took it well. It pays to tell the truth.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Sep. 1, 2013 at 6:34 AM

He didn't sleep with anyone, he would have brought it up, but even if he did, I did too so it goes both ways.

Quoting justpeachy71904:

yEa, did you ask this? Because if he was so chill about it I would be wondering

Quoting SyllabaryBisque:

I've gotta say that I would be wondering this as well.



Quoting JulietAngel89:

oh gosh.. If he was ok with that I would be wondering what he did on your break..


BrittSam2011
by Platinum Member on Sep. 1, 2013 at 6:43 AM

Good thing you said something. However, something like that can fester in a SO's mind. Don't be surprised if they try to use it against you in an argument in the future.

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