On Friday my son was at his last day of camp. A girl who looked in her early 20s was passing out special cookies they brought in. The camp director told me this is what went down.
My son apparently ran up and said "I want one!!!". She said "what do you say?" He said "give me one!" She told him that he needed to use his manners. He refused to say please and she refused to give him a cookie.
My son cried afterwards and the other kids were asking why he didn't get one too. I know he should have used his manners, but I think he got defensive after being embarrassed she called him out.
I was upset with the director but she backed up the girl and her actions. What would you have done?