Hi ladies. So I'm feeling kind of blue. My guy and I have a 3 month old son and he has a 4 yr old daughter who lives with her mother and we have his 9 yr old son living with us. My problem is my man acts like he's never interested in me. He acts like I annoy him when I try to just talk to him about ordinary stuff. I try not to stress him out with my issues because he has such a short fuse. I try to do silly things like play fight to make him laugh or suggest a silly movie but it seems he's always in a bad mood. My ex was not the biggest of winners but I was with him for so long because we had FUN. Now I get its not all sunshine loolipops and life isn't about always having fun, but some is good. He can never sit still and chill with me he's always playing on his phone and the only time he does chill is after work by himself in the room on his phone.I don't think he's cheating. I just don't get why he's not interested in having fun with me. He laughs and chops it up with his uncle and cousins who live with us but yet he always ckmplains about them to me and how he can't wait until we are financially able to be on our own. I miss having someone to laugh and talk with. To just take a drive and listen to music with. I know it sounds lame, but to giggle and play fight with. I just don't feel like I'm wanted by him I feel like I'm a chore and he'd rather be alone. Like right now, he's in the bedroom laying on the bed looking at cars since he just sold our second one today and coming out to tell his uncle about his finds rather than me; I'm writting you guys. He does work hard for us, I'm 99.9% positive he doesn't cheat, he's respectful, but just no happiness when it comes to me. I have to act miserable and ignore him for him to finally pay attention to me. Am I just being a baby or does anyone else have this problem?
on Sep. 1, 2013 at 3:55 PM